The Wedding at Cana is my favorite text because there is a lot of humor in it. There’s humor in a mother approaching her son and telling him to do something without ever actually telling him to do it. There’s his pouty resistance to his mother’s non-demand while she completely ignores him and paints him in a corner. There is humor in a raucous wedding reception where the people are so “lit” that the wine has run out. And, for me, it’s particularly humorous that there’s this huge, beautiful secret of which only a few people are aware.
Those people include Jesus’ mother and the select servants who help him pull off the miracle that inaugurates his ministry. Servants are normally meant to be inconspicuous, so I wanted to focus on the servant who goes to the chief steward with a cup full of what, as far as he’s concerned, is water.
If Jesus—whose ministry has not started, so there haven’t been any wonders associated with him yet—tells you to fill jars with water and draw from the jar to give to the chief steward, what is going through your mind at that moment? I invite the viewer to focus on this servant and all his curiosity and expectation, and think of a time when you were surprised by something God did. What actions preceded the miracle? Did it make sense? What did you know, and what was hidden from you? What “secrets” might God be keeping from you now as God works clandestinely on your behalf?
—Rev. T. Denise Anderson
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Delilah/The Table on Tap
We talked about “witnessing” and ways to “witness”. Some of us personally believe that there are different ways to witness. For example, UMCOR witnesses through action and relief, they don’t actually use words. Many of us are uncomfortable with the idea of doing it with words. Possibly, because aren’t really sure what God has done in our life, or are often questioning our beliefs. We know God is here – how can show that to our friends, neighbors – the world?
Things that have worked:
Finding something in common – my parents know our neighbors because they are all retired (they’re all at home during the day).
Paying attention – we realized that our neighbor was pregnant and took over diapers.
Reaching out with a friend – it’s easier to meet new people when you have someone familiar close by.
Smiling and simple “hellos”.
We also realized that sometimes being friendly can “freak” a person out. So we have to challenge ourselves to be friendly, kind and welcoming anyway. We have to be conscious and aware of the people around us and to not let our worries, stresses and burdens get in the way of “encounters”.
We had a really great conversation and are thankful that our Kitchen Table can be a “Jerusalem” for us or a safe stable place for us to be with others who watch over each other in Love.